I don’t follow the very high protein recommendations either, and I don’t personally feel you have to. I’ll overshare incase there is anything for you to glean in here.
Because you mentioned you don’t track your protein, it might be interesting for you to enter a typical day of what you consume in Cronometer.com (the free version). I’m always surprised how much protein I’m getting from veggies and things I’m not counting. If you haven’t used it, the big tip is to enter the generic food and not the brand (meaning, lentil pasta, and not xyz brand of lentil pasta). The reason is if you enter the brand, it gives you want the brand provides and not necessarily the amino acid profile. (It’s easy to try it both ways and you’ll see)
As a vegan, I’m constantly being shamed for not consuming enough protein, so I try to pay a lot of attention to this topic because I tend to cave and become insecure about my nutrition.
In that vein, I follow Stu Phillips who is a very well respected protein and muscle researcher. He says most people only need 1.2-1.6 grams of protein per day per kg to get almost everything they can get out of protein. I imagine for older people he would think closer to the 1.6. Recently, on the Attia podcast, Rhonda Patrick said ideally you base it on lean mass and not total weight (best news ever because that means I get 1.6 without any effort), but I have not heard Stu Phillips say as much…but I do plan to ask him and hopefully he’ll answer.
Based on the 1.2-1.6, if I’m using total weight, and not lean mass, I need 55-74 grams per day (I’m close to your size).
The most impactful thing I do is to start my day with two big soy milk lattes each morning. I use one cup of soy in each cup for a total of 24 grams of protein. I also dust the top with demerara sugar… yes, I said sugar
If pinch of sugar gets my soy milk to taste yummy, then I’m all in. At times I add vanilla or grate some dark chocolate on top too.
I use Eden Soy brand because theirs has 12 grams of protein per cup. Here is a link incase you want to see if you like it. They sell it at Whole Foods, but Vitacost is constantly having 20% off sales. You’ve mentioned fairlife brand. I see their milk has 13g per cup.
https://www.vitacost.com/eden-foods-organic-edensoy-soymilk-dairy-free-unsweetened
I eat a lot of salads or roasted veggies and I’ll almost always top them off with roasted chickpeas. (I just open a can, dry them off, mix them with a bit of olive oil and salt… maybe some Urfa chili flakes or what have you and roast them for aprox 9 minutes).
I’ll easily eat 3/4 - 1 can on those days which is up to 21 more grams of protein.
As I mentioned in your thread for your husband, some days I’ll make a big strawberry smoothie with Kachava protein powder. If I’m not having as much protein that day, I’ll blend it with soy instead of water. Kachava has 25grams per serving… use it with soy and you have 37! If I want a protein bomb, I’ll even added an extra half scoop of powder. You’ve mentioned you start your day with a smoothie, so I’d recommend mixing it with a high protein milk of your choice (which your probably already do), but also consider just adding extra protein powder in there. It’s a new trick for me that somehow never occurred to me
FWIW, I was using pea protein for years, but I mostly use kachava now simply because it tastes so much better to me that it encourages me to have them… I was up to my eyeballs in shakes and they started to become a chore.
And at the end of the day, if I had a low protein day, I’ll just have a cup of soy milk because it’s quick and easy to gulp even if I’m full. Sometimes I add cacao/cocoa powder. I made my own almond milk for decades, but discovering this soy milk has made my protein seeking life so much easier.
I was eating more perfectly until not too long ago, but then I realized it’s better to just get some stuff in me than not at all (hello sugar on my latte). So, if you wind up needing more protein, if adding a little processed food or less healthy food can get you there to avoid frailty, then I’d personally feel that is a healthy trade off. I don’t eat junk often, but in that spirit, I keep some breaded fake chicken nuggets in the freezer for the days I can’t face another piece of tofu or beans
You eat dairy and fish, so it’s obviously a little more interesting and tasty for you to get it all in.
PS, it’s a clever idea you have to add leucine. It just so happens that Layne Norton was discussing leucine yesterday in his latest podcast which discussed a study comparing plant to animal protein. He said if you are eating plant based protein, if not having enough of it, by adding leucine to match whey, it should have the same results. I try to have enough quantity of protein in order for the amino acid profile not to matter, but that might be a nice thing to have around on those lower protein days, mainly when I travel.